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Soothing & crying

Gentle ways to calm a crying baby — reading cues, the witching hour, colic and PURPLE crying, and soothing techniques that respect both of you.

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All soothing & crying guides

SleepSoothing

Baby crying in sleep: why it happens and when to go in

Why babies and toddlers whimper, cry or scream in their sleep, how long to pause before going in, and which cries mean hunger, pain or illness.

9 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Baby gas at night: easing wind, evening fussing and red flags

Why wind and fussing often seem worse in the evening, how feeding, burping, massage and leg movements can help at night, and which tummy signs need a doctor.

9 min read · Newborn
SoothingHealth

Baby hiccups: why they happen, what helps and when to worry

Why newborns and babies hiccup, how to ease hiccups during feeds, which remedies to skip, how they link to reflux, and when to get medical help.

10 min read · Newborn
SoothingDevelopment

Baby massage: how to do it, benefits, oils and when to avoid it

How to massage your baby step by step, what the evidence says about benefits, which oils to use or avoid, reading your baby's cues and when not to massage.

8 min read · Newborn
BreastfeedingPostpartum

Cluster feeding: why babies feed constantly and how to cope

What cluster feeding is, when it usually happens, why it's rarely a sign of low supply, how to get through long evenings, and when frequent feeding needs a check.

8 min read · Newborn
SoothingBehavior

Colic and PURPLE crying: what's normal and how to cope

What colic and the Period of PURPLE Crying are, when crying peaks and eases, a coping plan, remedies that don't help, and red flags that need urgent care.

9 min read · Newborn
SoothingHealth

Colic remedies: what works, what doesn't and what to avoid

An honest evidence check on gripe water, colic drops, probiotics, lactase, formula and diet changes, chiropractic, massage and herbal teas for colic.

10 min read · Newborn
SleepSafe Sleep

Contact napping: why newborns nap on you and how to stay safe

Why newborns often only nap on a parent, why it isn't a bad habit, how to keep contact naps and babywearing safe, and how to move a sleeping baby to the cot.

9 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Drowsy but awake: what it means and how to practise it gently

What "put your baby down drowsy but awake" means, what the advice is based on, how to practise it gently at each age, and why it's fine if it doesn't work yet.

8 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Dummies for babies: SIDS, safe use and when to stop

What the evidence says about dummies and SIDS, when to start if you're breastfeeding, how to use one safely for sleep, and how and when to wean off it.

8 min read · Newborn
BottleBreastfeeding

How to burp a baby: 3 positions, when to burp, and wind pain

Three burping positions step by step, when and how often to burp breastfed and bottle-fed babies, what to do if nothing comes up, and easing wind.

9 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Is it OK to feed or rock your baby to sleep?

Why feeding, rocking and holding babies to sleep is normal, what sleep associations really mean, how to do it safely and gentle ways to change it if you want to.

10 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Newborn won't sleep unless held: why, and safe ways through it

Why newborns want to be held to sleep, how to make contact naps, transfers, swaddling, dummies and slings safer, and what to do if you might fall asleep.

11 min read · Newborn
SleepBreastfeeding

Night weaning: gentle step-by-step plans for breast and bottle

Step-by-step ways to cut night feeds gradually — shortening feeds, stretching the gap, partner resettling — plus what to expect and when to pause.

9 min read · Infant
SleepSoothing

Overtired baby: signs by age and how to help them settle

How to tell an overtired baby or toddler from a tired one, why overtiredness makes settling harder, how to calm them, and how to stop it happening.

10 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Pick up, put down method: steps, ages and does it work?

How the pick-up-put-down settling method works, where it comes from, the ages it's used at, step-by-step instructions and what the evidence does and doesn't show.

9 min read · Infant
SleepSoothing

Responsive settling by age: gentle ways to help your baby sleep

How responsive settling works from newborn to toddler, from settling in arms to hands-on and comfort settling, and how it differs from sleep training.

7 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

Short baby naps: why catnapping happens and what helps

Why many babies wake after one sleep cycle, how long naps usually last by age, what to try when short naps leave your baby tired, and when it's fine.

8 min read · Infant
SleepSoothing

Shush-pat settling: how to do it safely, step by step

How to settle your baby with shushing and rhythmic patting in the cot or in your arms, which ages it suits, what the evidence says and the safety rules.

10 min read · Newborn
SleepBehavior

Sleep training methods compared: ages, crying and evidence

Compare every popular baby sleep and settling method side by side, with the ages sources give, how much crying each plans for, and what research shows.

11 min read · Infant
SleepSafe Sleep

Swaddling a baby: how to wrap safely and when to stop

How to swaddle or wrap your baby safely for sleep, which wraps to use, hip-healthy technique, and when and how to stop once rolling begins.

9 min read · Newborn
SoothingBehavior

The 5 S's for soothing a baby: how to do each step safely

How to use Dr Harvey Karp's 5 S's (swaddle, side hold, shush, swing, suck) to calm a crying baby, with the safety rules for each step.

6 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

The Possums sleep approach (NDC): what it is and what research shows

A neutral look at the Australian Possums approach to baby sleep, also called Neuroprotective Developmental Care, its main ideas and what studies have found.

9 min read · Newborn
SleepSoothing

White noise for babies: does it help, and how loud is safe?

What white noise is, what the research says about babies' sleep, the hearing concerns about sleep machines, and how to set one up and wean off it.

9 min read · Newborn
SoothingBehavior

Why is my baby crying? A calm checklist and soothing ideas

Why babies cry, a step-by-step checklist, soothing techniques that help, how much crying is normal, which cries need urgent help, and coping when it's too much.

9 min read · Newborn

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